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When a friend needs you after she's miscarried, don't try to figure the "how" of it all- she'll let you know. Sometimes, it's simply the comfort of knowing you're with her. What matters is that you're there.- Ellen M. DuBois

All we want to do is help a friend who's miscarried. What to say? Should you bring them something, send a card, ask how they're feeling?

Acknowleding what she's been through, letting her know you're sorry for her loss and being there are so important. She may not want to talk about it. Perhaps sitting in comfortable silence while she rests is exactly what she needs. Maybe she will want to talk, and you're there for her. Listening is such a gift to offer someone who needs to be heard. Support comes in many forms. Being there, whether in person (if possible) or touching base via text, phone, etc., is the greatest, most valuable way to show you care.

To all who have suffered a miscarriage, I am so sorry for your loss. I wish you love, peace, support and healing.

Ellen

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These quotes are part of a new book I'm working on to help support women and their families who have suffered the pain, grief and isolation after miscarriage. 

After years of writing various quotes to help my visitors navigate the waters after miscarriage, I've decided to put them into a helpful, relatable book. It's not complete and I'll let you know when it's available. The point is, when you read a quote you can relate to, you feel less alone. Support after miscarriage is so important, as is awareness and connection with others. My hope is when you read these quotes, you'll feel like "I get that." I want you to feel less alone.

It's a road none of us want to walk, but it's easier when we've got each other.

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Times are overwhelming, to say the least. We're all getting through the days as best we can, charting the unknown. Many of us feel scared, sad, frustrated, anxious and more. It's hard to see the hope sometimes. Being the "Pollyanna" I am, I find hope every day in things like nature, counting my blessings, my family, etc. because it fuels me and makes me feel stronger.

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These quotes are part of a new book I'm working on to help support women and their families who have suffered the pain, grief and isolation after miscarriage. 

After years of writing various quotes to help my visitors navigate the waters after miscarriage, I've decided to put them into a helpful, relatable book. It's not complete and I'll let you know when it's available. The point is, when you read a quote you can relate to, you feel less alone. Support after miscarriage is so important, as is awareness and connection with others. My hope is when you read these quotes, you'll feel like "I get that." I want you to feel less alone.

It's a road none of us want to walk, but it's easier when we've got each other.

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You're always loved, always my child,
you live in my heart like
no other.
You're always missed,
never forgotten -
I'll always be
your mother.
Ellen M. DuBois, Miscarriagehelp.com

I'm thinking of you all with love and light, Ellen 

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