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Miscarriage: When your baby is still inside of you.

by Ellen DuBois on 04/02/13

When your baby is still inside of you.

A woman wrote in on my FB page (I've left out her name), and said: "Hi,  i came across your site on google when i was looking for some kind of image to put on my page to remember my baby. I found out on march 4th that i had miscarried. he/she measures 7 weeks but should have been 10 or so. so the doc says its heart stopped and growth stopped at 7 weeks. this wasnt my first miscarriage but it is the first that has gotten to grow and that i knew i was pregnant the hardest part for me is seeing it and knowing its still inside me and im just waiting for something to happen. sorry for the story i just wanted to thank you for this page. Its nice to know im not alone."

Ellen said: "I am so sorry for your losses. I went through the same thing when I miscarried, and it was so difficult knowing my baby was still inside of me, but not alive. That feeling is beyond words. My heart goes out to you. My doctor suggested a D&C rather than waiting. I don't think there is easy way no matter what. Believe me, you are not alone. I know how it feels it and I've walked the road, too. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. (((Hugs to you))) Ellen xx"

To all those who feel alone, please know you are not. Sadly, there are many women who have walked the very painful road after miscarriage. I am so sorry for your loss and you are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Love and Light,


Comments (2)

1. nicola bett said on 4/2/13 - 11:49AM
I know how you feel...my 2nd miscarridge was horrid...i thought i had miscarried and had an early scan...i took my mother in law as me and my husband had alot off time off earlier on in the year with my first miscarridge so i didnt want to pull him out of work to look at a blank scan again...they said nothing while doing my scan tears rolled down my face...then they turned the monitor to us and there they were at 7 weeks...little heart beating...i was so happy but felt so guilty as my hubby wasnt there to share it...but we have the 12 week scan babe he said to me...the scan was the 19th of june 2012 the day before my mums birthday so she came with us as she was just as excitied...i was so nervoius waiting to be called in the the tiny scan room...as they put the scanner on my tummy they said oh there hiding and i need to empty my bladder for an internal scan...i know something wasnt right...so after empting my bladder and having the internal scan we were told baby had died and the sack had grow but baby didnt...my husband passed out through the horrid news...sorry im crying while wrighting this just remembering that horrid day...so my heart goes out to you...people who have children are so lucky...hugs to you...x
2. Ellen DuBois said on 4/4/13 - 06:34AM
Dear Nicola, I am so sorry for your losses and for what you went through. My heart goes out to you and I also know how you feel. I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers. xx Ellen

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