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Miscarriage and Blame. #miscarriage #miscarriagesupport #miscarriagehelp

by Ellen DuBois on 08/16/17

"Acknowledge your pain. Feel it. But please stop blaming yourself, God or anyone else."- Ellen DuBois, I Never Held You

I know after living through a miscarriage and blaming myself, God and anyone else I could think of that I wasn't helping myself. I was hurting myself. I also know it's very easy to wonder if you did anything wrong.

I get how it feels to retrace your footsteps and try to pinpoint the one thing you did that caused such a painful loss. When I couldn't find blame within myself, I questioned God. Why would my happiness be stolen from me? What did I do? Why me? So, if that's where you're at, I really do understand where you're coming from. But, take it from one who has lived it and finally came to a place where I stopped blaming myself: It wasn't your fault and hurting yourself over and over again in an attempt to find an answer just hurts you.

I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. I'll be sharing quotes from my book on future posts and I hope you find them helpful. Love and Light, Ellen


Welcome to MiscarriageHelp.com. My name is Ellen DuBois, host of this site, miscarriage survivor, and author of I Never Held You: Miscarriage, Grief, Healing and Recovery. If you or someone you love has suffered a miscarriage, please know you're not alone. Connect with people who understand.

Note: Please feel free to leave a comment here. If it's easier, please email me. ellen@miscarriagehelp.com
Love & comfort to you, Ellen

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Hello. My name is Ellen DuBois. Welcome to MiscarriageHelp.com. I am deeply sorry for your loss.

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"MiscarriageHelp.com is a support site for women and their families who have suffered the pain, loss and grief after miscarriage. I respond personally to each email and post and have been doing so since 2006. It's an outreach to me, as I try to connect and support those who have walked the often lonely road after miscarriage. Why? I don't want anyone to feel as alone as I did over twenty years ago after my own miscarriage." - Love & comfort to you, Ellen

Ellen M. DuBois is the author of I Never Held You: Miscarriage, Grief, Healing and Recovery

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