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To the Woman Who Miscarried: Your Baby Was Real #Repost #MiscarriageHelp

by Ellen DuBois on 02/15/18



"Please don't tell anyone who has miscarried her baby wasn't 'real'. That's like telling her she was never really pregnant."- Ellen DuBois

I know it may sound like common sense to many, but sadly, that's not always the case. So many women feel their loss is dismissed by hurtful comments, (although they may be said with the best of intentions...).

For example:

  • You never even saw your baby.
  • Your baby wasn't really "real".
  • You can always have another.
  • Don't you think it's time you get over this and move on? (That was said to me.)
  • At least you've got other children. (Like the one she lost doesn't "count"?)

This list goes on. It's really about awareness. A woman and her family who lose a baby to miscarriage are grieving. A mother who suffers a miscarriage often falls in love with her baby long before she ever "sees" her child. There is a very strong connection between a mother and her baby in the womb. In a split second, miscarriage takes this away, along with all the plans, hopes, dreams and wishes for the baby. I know first hand there are many thoughts and plans, down to the cute, little baby booties tiny feet will never fill.

It's heartbreaking.

The more people become aware of the very real grief miscarriage leaves in its path, the more sensitive people will be when talking to the mother and/or an entire family about it. Father's are deeply hurt by this, too, as are any siblings awaiting the baby's arrival. 

To all who have lost a baby, or more than one, to miscarriage, I am deeply sorry for your loss(es).

Love and Light to you,

Ellen


 

Welcome to MiscarriageHelp.com. My name is Ellen DuBois, host of this site, miscarriage survivor, and author of I Never Held You: Miscarriage, Grief, Healing and Recovery. If you or someone you love has suffered a miscarriage, please know you're not alone. Connect with people who understand.

Note: Some people find it difficult to post comments here because it's not very clear how to do it. Just hit the "comment" link under any post. I'll get your comment and respond. If it's easier, please email me. ellen@miscarriagehelp.com
Love & comfort to you, Ellen

The MiscarriageHelp.com Daily- paper.li- by Ellen DuBois. Updated daily with a curated selection of articles, blog posts, videos and photos. Click here. Miscarriage Support- Because Your Loss Matters.

Miscarriage: A Note To Heaven (Repost)

by Ellen DuBois on 02/10/18



I know I've felt this way so many times.

Thinking of you all and wishing you healing & support.

I am so sorry for your loss.

Love and Light,

Ellen


 

Welcome to MiscarriageHelp.com. My name is Ellen DuBois, host of this site, miscarriage survivor, and author of I Never Held You: Miscarriage, Grief, Healing and Recovery. If you or someone you love has suffered a miscarriage, please know you're not alone. Connect with people who understand.

Note: Some people find it difficult to post comments here because it's not very clear how to do it. Just hit the "comment" link under any post. I'll get your comment and respond. If it's easier, please email me. ellen@miscarriagehelp.com
Love & comfort to you, Ellen

The MiscarriageHelp.com Daily- paper.li- by Ellen DuBois. Updated daily with a curated selection of articles, blog posts, videos and photos. Click here. Miscarriage Support- Because Your Loss Matters.

To the woman who miscarried: You are a beautiful woman- a reminder.

by Ellen DuBois on 02/08/18



I know you've suffered 

a loss like no other.
You might be blaming yourself,
beating yourself up for something
that wasn't your fault.
You are a beautiful woman-
who probably isn't feeling very beautiful
right now.
You've gone through
one of the most tragic losses
a woman can go through.
You are hurting. You're missing
the baby you loved-
and never got to hold.
You're grieving and grief feels ugly.
I know it hurts.
I also know you might be
searching...
for the why, the how, the answers.
Please remember,
throughout the tears, the grief,
the hurt, the anger, and everything in-between,
you are still a beautiful woman, from the inside out.
Beauty lives in your heart and 
nothing can take that away.
I'm here to help remind you of that.

I am so sorry for your loss.
Ellen M. DuBois, 2018

Love and Light to you,

Ellen



 


 

Welcome to MiscarriageHelp.com. My name is Ellen DuBois, host of this site, miscarriage survivor, and author of I Never Held You: Miscarriage, Grief, Healing and Recovery. If you or someone you love has suffered a miscarriage, please know you're not alone. Connect with people who understand.

Note: Some people find it difficult to post comments here because it's not very clear how to do it. Just hit the "comment" link under any post. I'll get your comment and respond. If it's easier, please email me. ellen@miscarriagehelp.com
Love & comfort to you, Ellen

The MiscarriageHelp.com Daily- paper.li- by Ellen DuBois. Updated daily with a curated selection of articles, blog posts, videos and photos. Click here. Miscarriage Support- Because Your Loss Matters.

We Will Love and Remember You Forever

by Ellen DuBois on 02/01/18



February is here. Spring is on the horizon. Many of us celebrate love on Valentine's Day. We go on with our lives, but we don't forget the precious babies we lost. They have a home in our heart and soul. "We will love and remember you forever."

Thinking of you all. Love, Comfort and God Bless, Ellen

 


 

Welcome to MiscarriageHelp.com. My name is Ellen DuBois, host of this site, miscarriage survivor, and author of I Never Held You: Miscarriage, Grief, Healing and Recovery. If you or someone you love has suffered a miscarriage, please know you're not alone. Connect with people who understand.

Note: Some people find it difficult to post comments here because it's not very clear how to do it. Just hit the "comment" link under any post. I'll get your comment and respond. If it's easier, please email me. ellen@miscarriagehelp.com

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Helping to spread miscarriage awareness and support. Together, we can make a difference. Love and light to you, Ellen

The MiscarriageHelp.com Daily- paper.li- by Ellen DuBois. Updated daily with a curated selection of articles, blog posts, videos and photos. Click here. Miscarriage Support- Because Your Loss Matters.

More To Miscarriage: I Lost My Baby.

by Ellen DuBois on 01/12/18



When you have a miscarriage, it's one of the most devastating things. The word miscarriage doesn't convey the depth of what you went through. You lost your baby. It's been many years since mine, but I remember the pain and the grief running so deep it consumed me. To this day I still think about the baby I lost and loved. So I'm posting this to help create awareness. A woman who miscarried did not only have a medical event occur. She lost a child she loved and had wishes, hopes and dreams for. She's entitled and deserves to grieve, as with any other loss. My heart goes out to anyone who has lived through this and to the families. They are affected, too.



 

Welcome to MiscarriageHelp.com. My name is Ellen DuBois, host of this site, miscarriage survivor, and author of I Never Held You: Miscarriage, Grief, Healing and Recovery. If you or someone you love has suffered a miscarriage, please know you're not alone. Connect with people who understand.

Note: Some people find it difficult to post comments here because it's not very clear how to do it. Just hit the "comment" link under any post. I'll get your comment and respond. If it's easier, please email me. ellen@miscarriagehelp.com
Love & comfort to you, Ellen

The MiscarriageHelp.com Daily- paper.li- by Ellen DuBois. Updated daily with a curated selection of articles, blog posts, videos and photos. Click here. Miscarriage Support- Because Your Loss Matters.

Hello. My name is Ellen DuBois. Welcome to MiscarriageHelp.com. I am deeply sorry for your loss.



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"MiscarriageHelp.com is a support site for women and their families who have suffered the pain, loss and grief after miscarriage. I respond personally to each email and post and have been doing so since 2006. It's an outreach to me, as I try to connect and support those who have walked the often lonely road after miscarriage. Why? I don't want anyone to feel as alone as I did over twenty years ago after my own miscarriage." - Love & comfort to you, Ellen

Ellen M. DuBois is the author of I Never Held You: Miscarriage, Grief, Healing and Recovery









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