Words For A Friend Offering Support After Miscarriage

by Ellen DuBois on 04/25/16


I know you've suffered a terrible loss-

and I want you to know I'm here.

I may not have the right words to say,

but, I care and want to be there for you.

We can talk if you want, or sit and

simply have a cup of tea together.

Whatever you want, I'm here for you-

and I'm so sorry for your loss.

Ellen M. DuBois 2016

So many times we feel at a loss for words when reaching out to support a friend after miscarriage. I hope these words give you some inspiration. You don't have to be "fancy" or have just the right words to say. It's about being there and letting your friend know how sorry you are for their loss.

Blessings to you,



Welcome to MiscarriageHelp.com. My name is Ellen DuBois, host of this site, miscarriage survivor, and author of I Never Held You: Miscarriage, Grief, Healing and Recovery. If you or someone you love has suffered a miscarriage, please know you're not alone. Connect with people who understand.

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Love & comfort to you, Ellen

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"MiscarriageHelp.com is a support site for women and their families who have suffered the pain, loss and grief after miscarriage. I respond personally to each email and post and have been doing so since 2006. It's an outreach to me, as I try to connect and support those who have walked the often lonely road after miscarriage. Why? I don't want anyone to feel as alone as I did some twenty years ago after my own miscarriage." -Love & comfort to you, Ellen, - Ellen M. DuBois
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